Again... Chris Thompson made me wonder
about men and women playing those stupid games. (Here's the link for his video Why men DON'T approach women ).
After watching the video and listening to Chris I got an impression that he
really thinks women are frustrating. I know Chris, you have to generalize but
your generalization means that girls are mean - in general. At first I couldn't
agree. I thought: 'hey we're not like that', but then I think I got your point
Chris, or at least I think I did. The thing is you were talking about specific
type of girls who I personally associate with those giggling with their
friends all the time, putting too much make-up on, wearing a lot of pink and
glittering things etc.
Then I wondered is it true that men do not approach
women? Of course they do, but they approach those girls they are attracted to
and that depends on what kind of guy you are. Chris, you are one of those good
guys, who are barely likely to be attracted to "woo-girls", but there
are lots of men who like it.
In my opinion people have problems with
approaching each other in general and that's because it's all about these
stupid games they play: women think "I can't approach him because I don't
want to him to think I'm desperate or that I want to sleep with him, or that
I'm too easy to get.", men may think "I'm not going to approach her,
because there a too many friends around her bla bla bla...".
My suggestion is: stop doing that, stop thinking about
what he or she thinks. If you like that person go and say hi, doesn’t matter if
you're a girl or a guy. Just don't base you're opinion only on person's
appearance. Observe them for a while. Try to figure out how they interact with
people (as you said Chris), look at their body language, it'll tell you a lot
about them and then if you think it is a right person for you just go and say
"hi".
As I said in my comment I don't think I am the exception.
I just hate when men say that women are frustrating. Why do you guys think we
don't like sex, or we don't like watching football, playing video games? I can
assure you there are many beautiful women who love these things, who can drive
a car and are independent but still they are feminine, sweet, and
attractive. As I said - maybe you have approached the wrong kind of girls.
Few words to some girls:
Get over
yourselves. I know you’re pretty but stop thinking that the whole world is
intimidated by you beauty.
Why do you think men have to pay for dinner? Be independent. Are you looking for a date or a free meal?
Don’t say that it is the guy who has to come up with the date ideas. You can take him somewhere, come up with an interesting idea.
You’re not the only one who likes to be amused, seduced, and appreciated. It works both ways. He did something for you, do something for him.
Be romantic! Why do you girls think it’s men’s responsibility to create romantic atmosphere? I don’t get it.
Just realize that when you’re with somebody it’s not just about you, girl. He’s as important in a relationship as you are.
Why do you think men have to pay for dinner? Be independent. Are you looking for a date or a free meal?
Don’t say that it is the guy who has to come up with the date ideas. You can take him somewhere, come up with an interesting idea.
You’re not the only one who likes to be amused, seduced, and appreciated. It works both ways. He did something for you, do something for him.
Be romantic! Why do you girls think it’s men’s responsibility to create romantic atmosphere? I don’t get it.
Just realize that when you’re with somebody it’s not just about you, girl. He’s as important in a relationship as you are.
Few words to people in general:
Don’t be disrespectful. If someone approaches
you and you’re not into that person, be kind and tell them in a gentle way that
you’re not interested. We’re all human beings so please let’s respect each
other.
I'm impressed because of the simplicity of thinking. I like it. You should write more ;-)
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